Remember don’t be shy
Do you find it difficult to get along with others?
It's hard to say why you love someone. Maybe it's their goofy smile, or their sharp wit, or maybe it's because you feel comfortable spending time with them
Scientists are generally not satisfied with answers like this, and they have spent years trying to determine the exact factors that attract one person to another.
Therefore, we have compiled for you a collection of their most interesting results. Read on for ideas that will make you see your existing friendships in a new light and help you form better relationships faster; According to the Australian « Science Alert » website.
This topic is so big so I’m this post I’ll share the process of this mission
SUMMARY :
1. Imitate the behavior of the person you spend time with
2. Spend more time near the people you hope to be friends with
3. Praise others
4. Try to show positive emotions
5. Be friendly and efficient
6. Reveal your flaws from time to time
7. Reinforce Shared Values
8. Touch others spontaneously
9. smile
10. See the other person as he or she wants people to see them
11. Tell them a secret
12. Show that you can keep their secrets too
13. Show a sense of humor
14. Let them talk about themselves
15. Show your weakness a little
16. Act like you like them
for the number 1:
This strategy is called reversal, and it involves masterfully simulating another person's behavior. When you're talking to someone, try to imitate their body language, gestures, and facial expressions.
In 1999, researchers at New York University documented the so-called "chameleon effect," which occurs when people unconsciously imitate each other's behavior. This tradition facilitates the exchange of feelings of admiration.
As part of the experiment, the researchers arranged for 72 men and women to work on a task with a partner. Part of the partners (who worked for the researchers) imitated the behavior of the person with whom they were participating, and the other part did not, and during the experiment the researchers videotaped the interactions.
At the end of the interaction, the researchers asked the participants how much they liked their partners.
Indeed, participants were more likely to say they liked their partner when that partner was imitating their behavior.