Gaining Self Confidence

Self Confidence

Self confidence is the feeling of trust in one's abilities, qualities and judgements.

The absence of trust in your abilities, qualities and judgements always makes one less confident of themselves. One always have the feeling that what you say doesn't makes sense, you will always feel that you are not good enough, pretty/hansome enough and you see the need to modify yourself maybe to the standard you have in your head as "perfect".

This lack of self confidence push people to try to do one thing or the other to fit in the society's "perfection" which of course no one can be perfect.

One thing we fail to know is that, you are beautiful the way you are. Who made the standards? No one set any standards for anybody it's just a feeling which needs to be completely eradicated from your mind and then you start seeing yourself like someone whose opinion counts and one who needs no adjustments to be perfect because no one is.

In order to build self confidence, here are some few steps you can follow.

• Set goals for yourself and meet them: when you start meeting the goals you set for yourself, you will then start trusting your abilities and know that you can do it.
• Careless about society standards and set your standards for yourself: yes, set your own beauty/handsomeness standards and pay less attention to society's pressure, then you will realize that you are even more outstanding and maybe society might even copy your style.
•  Be yourself; just be yourself and don't try to be someone else because no body can ever be you. There is a uniqueness in being yourself which is original.

If you had that feeling of resentment when it comes to you, i am directing this to you that; you matter, you count, you are beautiful/handsome just the way you are, no one else can be you and you posses more qualities than you think. Just erase any low self esteem in your head and start taking over because no one will if you don't.